Two friends met that had not seen each other in a very long time. The first said
I got married and after a few years I got sick, I was pale and weak. I looked like I had Aids. My wife that had loved me earlier started to neglect me. And as I got sicker she started to treat me bad. It was that sickess that God sent to me to show me that she did not love me so after this I left her. Thank God we had no children.
The second friend smiled and told him
Remember how I used to be fat? I also did not usually have money to buy nice clothes. I found a woman that loved me and we got married. I started to work in contracting and put a lot of effort. I lost weight, my body is now more muscular than I was young and now I can afford to dress well.
After this my wife started to treat me better, and we in the increased passion got children. The more successful I was the better she treated me. People say that she would light her fingers as candles for me. But it was not always like this. Now I realize that my wife does not truely love me is just like yours did not love you. For love should not decrease if you are sick and should not increase just because you now look better and are richer. Only you are luckier than me to have found that out earlier and easier.